Is He Serious About You or Are You Just a Booty Call?

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So you’ve been seeing this guy for awhile now. He’s hot, funny and successful. But what are his intentions? Does he really want a relationship with you or is he just keeping you around for a good time? Here are some signs to look out for that may indicate you are just a booty call:

-He’d rather spend time staying in at his place, get a room at a hotel or worse spend time in the backseat of his car, than to take you out (it’s cheaper than a hotel)

-In the rare occasion that he does take you out, let’s say to the movies, he takes a lot of washroom breaks (Maybe to call the other girl he’s talking to?)

-After you two hook up, he is quick to go home

-When you two do have sex, it’s all about him

-He keeps you on the down low. He hasn’t introduced you to his friends yet and hasn’t mentioned anything about you to his family

-You go out of his way to see him while he doesn’t make much of an effort

-He’d rather text than talk to you on the phone

-When you do talk to him on the phone, it’s about sex (Half the time you’re not even feeling that dirty talk but you go along with it to make him “happy”)

-When you two are together, you notice that he always puts his phone face down (perhaps to prevent you from seeing calls and texts from other girls?)

-He doesn’t spend money on you. In fact, you front the bill when you go out for dinner

-He doesn’t want to put any titles on your relationship

-When the relationship topic does comes up, he says he just wants to go with the flow (Us ladies have heard this line way too many times before)

-He avoids any topics to do with any type of commitment like being in a relationship. (Let’s not even bring up the topic of marriage)

-You found his profile on other dating sites like Plenty of Fish while you two are still talking. (His last login was right after hooking up with you when he left)

-He doesn’t know what your favourite colour is

-When you’re alone together, he’d rather watch TV than to hear how your day went

6356933720223369421954853546_MjAxMS1hMzMyZTNmMzlkMjJmNWE4Ladies please don’t fall for these types of guys. They will never want anything serious with you. In fact you made it too easy for them to have it their way. Advice? Stick with what you want in the beginning and never compromise that. Learn to trust your gut. If you question something or something doesn’t feel right to you, then you should follow your instincts. You’ll find that most of the time you’re right. You ignore your gut sometimes because you really want the relationship to work and you hope that the guy you’re seeing will soon change but most of the time that never happens. If you want a serious commitment then find someone else who wants the same things as you. Do not settle for these douchebags and don’t think they will ever change their ways. Make your intentions clear from the beginning and never lower your standards for any guy. You will find what you’re looking for; it’s just a matter of time. For now, kick the jerk to the curb.

 xoxoxo

-Sheena

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